The Invisible Woman: A journey from youth to invisibility and beyond

I’ve turned invisible – which definitely has its advantages. Case in point – I wear pyjamas for almost the whole of winter – which is pretty much the next best thing to full-on hibernation. As a result of this recently acquired superpower, I’m also privy to some interesting conversations. Standing on the playground waiting for…

Share Your Stories – Because They’re All You Have

I love me a good story. My friends know this about me – they’ll call me up and start the conversation with: “Wait till you hear this one . . . “ or “Something happened today that I know you’ll appreciate”. The weird, the funny, the creepy – it doesn’t matter – I love them…

Parenting is a Thankless Job (but it doesn’t have to be)

Maybe my expectations run too high and I’m glossing over the fleeting frivolity of youth – but somehow I don’t think so. In an age where everyone is glued to their phones; where plans are made by the tapping of fingertips as opposed to face-to-face contact; when it’s easier to text a smiley face emoji…

Baby It’s Cold Outside – So Bundle Up

Negative 15 outside? No problem. Nothing a warm hat, fur-laden mittens, woolen scarf, frost-proof snowpants, puffy ski jacket and lined boots won’t cure. And if my 14-year-old refuses these accoutrements – then that’s her business. Just as it was my business 30 years ago to eschew warm winter boots for thin, fake-leather, shoes and forgo…

Dear Parents: Never Ever Do These 13 Things

I’m sick and tired of the lists circulating in cyberspace chock full of parenting no-nos. You know the ones to which I’m referring. They offer up helpful tidbits of advice such as: Never tell your child ‘good job” or Never force a child to eat.  These lists are vaguely threatening in the sense that they…

Ian Northeast – On Being a Father, Writer and Dyslexic (Guest Post)

  Growing up with dyslexia wasn’t an issue for me. I’m the fortunate one. I escaped the stigma well into my teens and finally got diagnosed just prior to applying for a place at university. For this I am eternally thankful. I escaped the ‘stupid’ tag. Fast forward 30 to 40 years, and both the…

Katie Stewart: On Living Life With Hope, Love and Joy

Once upon a time, Katie Stewart had a vision for her future self. Hers would be a normal life – comprised of work and love and maybe even parenthood. Over the years – as a teenager and young adult, this vision would dim at times. Yet at others, it would snap into clear focus as…

In Case I Die Tomorrow: 13 Guidelines For My Kiddos

I won’t go so far to say that I have this parenting thing figured out — but I do believe I have a handle on it for now. My three are coming along quite nicely if I do say so myself. Every time I peek into the oven, they seem to be browning up just…

Dear Parents: Don’t Skip School! (Guest Post)

They can be awkward. They can be difficult. They may even seem pointless. For these reasons alone, many parents may dismiss the parent-teacher interview as being too brief a meeting, even entirely unimportant – but this couldn’t be farther from the truth. In order to clear up these common misconceptions, listed below are five reasons…

Autism in Public: A Bystander’s Guide

If you are a parent reading this – then you know what it feels like to be judged by perfect strangers. You understand the public shame associated with a child’s temper tantrum. Then you, unfortunately, have fallen prey to undisguised scorn and derision for events beyond your control. If you are the parent of an…